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ShouldHaveMet

The app you’re meant to close.

No swiping, no streaks. We introduce you to people whose week meets yours, tell you why, and get out of the way.

Our promises

  1. Paying never changes who you meet.

    Every plan sees the same people, as often, and paying never raises anyone’s rank. Who we introduce comes from your week and theirs.

  2. Never ranked by looks, likes or popularity.

    Photos, likes and how many people say hello to you are never scored. A “not now” is about a pair, never about you for anyone else.

  3. Success is people who meet twice.

    Not minutes in the app, not messages sent. We measure whether two people met again within six weeks, and tune the matching for that.

  4. Every introduction tells you why.

    “You both run on Sunday mornings, 2 km apart.” The whole model is public, with what counts and how much.

  5. At most three notifications a week from us.

    Messages from people you’ve matched with arrive as they’re written. Never “someone viewed you”, never a streak.

  6. Leave whenever you like, with everything.

    Delete your account in Settings, any time. Your profile, photos and answers go with it.

  7. No ads. Made and hosted in the EU.

    Nobody pays us to show you anything, and your data isn’t for sale.

Tell us what you do. We’ll find who does it too, nearby.